Bumpy Roads……
Hi All!
Again, it’s been a while since we’ve chatted, and we know it’s been a tough year for most everyone. We sincerely hope you are safely navigating your bumpy roads, and this update finds you happy, healthy and safe.
We just wanted to touch base and give you our “Reader’s Digest” update. If you have followed this blog you know we arrived at our home (The Paddle House) in Bend, Oregon this past May. We really enjoyed our time nesting, getting lots of “honey-do” projects completed, visiting with old friends and meeting new ones, and having out-of-town friends visit while enjoying the beautiful community of Bend.
We were preparing to leave and return to Scout, who has been all alone and on the hard in St. Mary’s Georgia, when we had yet another “bump in our road”. I hadn’t been feeling well for about a week, so I scheduled an appointment with my doctor. After lots of poking and prodding, I was diagnosed with ovarian cancer. Yuck! And with only one Gynecological Oncologist in Bend we had some decisions to make.
So, here is the Reader’s Digest version. We decided to go to MD Anderson’s Cancer Center in Houston, Texas. We have family in Katy, Texas (a suburb of Houston) who have been encouraging us to come to MD Anderson for a second opinion/treatment. My sister-in-law (Michelle) has a house in Katy for business even though she and her husband (Michael’s brother, Richard) live in Dallas, Texas. Michelle and Richard were kind enough to offer their Katy home to us as a place to stay while going to the cancer center. My sister, Sandy, also lives in Katy (they are just five miles apart) and offered to go with me and/or take me to appointments. So, the decision was made and on Sunday (10/18) morning we packed the car with our stuff and the doggies and drove four long long long days to Katy.
MD Anderson confirmed the cancer diagnosis and accepted me for treatment and it looks like I will start chemo on Thursday. The plan is for three chemo treatments first, then if all goes as planned, surgery, followed by three more chemo sessions.
And, a back story – Michael decided not to get treatment for his prostate cancer in Bend. After much research and talking with knowledgeable friends he decided do “proton” therapy. MD Anderson’s Cancer Center is one of the few facilities that offer Proton Therapy, so he is looking into getting treatment here as well. Aren’t we just the closest couple? Going through everything together – including cancer treatment? Maybe we can get a double-bed hospital room so we can hold hands during our treatments.
So, our road looks a bit bumpy, but we are at one of the best cancer facilities in the world with supportive family and a beautiful place to stay. Again, we ended up being very lucky.
Wishing you all the very best and we will keep you posted…..
Sorry, no photos this time.
19 thoughts on “Bumpy Roads……”
Sending you both our love and well wishes. You are for sure I’m the best hands.
Prayers for strength and healing.
Thank you Vicki. Agreed that we are in good hands. Thanks for your prayers.
Well. Damn it all.
So sorry to hear this but the universe is conspiring to make it the best possible.
Thinking of you and wishing all the best.
P
Thanks Patti. Yeah, we are lucky in that we are able to take advantage of one of the best facilities in the world and to be around supporting family. Thanks for your kind words.
We’re sending our prayers of support. You are a very special couple and we love you both!! Carmen and Gary
Thanks Carmen and Gary. Appreciate your thoughts and prayers. We’ve heard only great things about MD Anderson so I think we are in good hands.
You guys are an inspiration for many of us.
We will hold good thoughts for you during this new challenge, as you show us once again how to overcome adversity. MD Sanderson is a powerful partner. God bless.
Thanks Chuck. I think you are an inspiration to US. I know you’ve been through a lot and always keep a positive attitude. We agree MD Anderson is a powerful partner. Feel lucky to be able to take advantage of such a wonderful facility.
It will all be ok! I love you!❤️❤️❤️
Thanks Sandy for your love and support. Lucky to have you here.
OMG Sharon! When it rains it pours!! Wishing both of you all the best!!!
Love and hugs,
Pam
Thanks Pam. Yeah, seems we can’t get a break but we’re in a good place. Thanks again for your good wishes.
So sorry to hear this news. I know you will both be back out there soon and feeling great.
Hugs and Love to you both!
Hi Sharon, please know that David and I will be thinking of you two in the days ahead. I’m glad you and Mike have each other to get through this difficult time. Thankfully, you have access to excellent health care and treatment options… not to mention good insurance! I’m glad you have family there to support you as well. Scout will be there waiting for you when all this is done. As my son says, “Believe in the power of positivity!” Keep us posted …. :)))
So very sorry to hear this news. Sounds like you are in the right place to deal with it, and have family there for support.
Sending you both big hugs and prayers,
Dianne
Sharon & Mike:
I just did a cursory for you and I see you have been charting your travels and adventures and I hope that you are both doing well in Katy, TX. My prayers are with both of you and I hope that you are getting exceptional treatment and love and care from Anderson MD in Houston. You can work on your Southern accents too!
Hi Carole, So nice to hear from you. Yes we are getting excellent care at MD Anderson and are fortunate to have family in the area.
It’s so interesting that you found us through this blog as it crashed and has been down for months – we have just started to restore it – trying to find the losts posts and all the missing photos. So it’s ironic that you sent a message and that I saw it….And yes, our Southern accents are coming back,
Hope all is well with you!
Hi Sharon
Just read about the “Bumpy Road”….aptly named..thoughts and prayers for two of our favorite people….please keep us in the loop
Hi Guys,
Thank you sooo much for your thoughts and prayers. Will definitely keep you in the loop.
Hugs….